We’re bad parents

I’m teaching my kids to be patient, kind, humble. The seven classic virtues, basically. Having these virtues is important because they help us make the right choices in life, and make sure we all get along.

But in my work, I promote the opposite.

BAD PARENTS teaching kids patie - maartenpkappert | ello

I make websites and apps that are optimized to let people be the ultimate spoiled child. All information can be found super fast, so they don’t have to be patient. The content is easy to swallow, so they don’t have to think things through. And it’s all personalised, so they don’t have to consider the existence of other people.

We’re breeding a generation of spoiled brats. Is that who we want to be? If virtues lead to us getting along, what do these behaviors lead to?

I’m beginning to understand that we have a responsibility. We don’t just create websites, we don’t just create experiences; we also create character.

This of course leads up to the question: Then what? What’s the alternative – make it shitty?

Index

1. UNDERSTANDING THE PROBLEM

On sustainability

2. UNDERSTANDING HOW THE WORLD WORKS

On nature

On human nature

On the meaning of life and living

On culture

On morality

3. UNDERSTANDING HOW CHANGE WORKS

On the Next Level Society

On behavioral change

On marketing sustainability

4-A. FIXING HOW WE DESIGN THE WORLD

On naturalness

On naturalness in behaviour

On naturalness in art

Artworks of interest

On naturalness in architecture

Architecture of interest: naturalness

On livable architecture

Architecture of interest: livability

On naturalness in design

Design works of interest

4-B. FIXING OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH OURSELVES

On well-being, self care and happiness

4-C. FIXING THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN BUSINESS AND SOCIETY

On responsible business

On Positive Design & design ethics

On privacy

Progressieve bureaus van Nederland, 2021

OTHER NOTES AND WRITINGS

On digital design, CX/UX, and technology

On the travel & hospitality industry

Miscellaneous

Other pages